Maria and Wendy channeled each other in their similar pieces of advice. Don’t change for others seems to be the general gist of it:
“I would advise women to never change who they are. If a man says you need to change something then they’re the wrong person for you because a man who loves you would NEVER try to change you.”
“Be yourself! Don’t change who you are just so someone will like you. If they don’t like you for yourself, they are not worth having around.”